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Wednesday, December 31, 2025
I’m not indecisive, just training my dog….
I’ve never really had a “barky” dog before, so was clueless when Daphne (my Sussex Spaniel) morphed into quite the barker as she passed the 12-month mark.
I think it’s related to Sussex Spaniels having been developed – more than 100 years ago – using the Basset Hound and two other spaniels. Yes, Sussex Spaniels are the only spaniels that howl - regularly throwing their heads back and singing the song of their people!
Along with this, lots and lots of barking: barking with excitement when we arrive for a walk, barking at passers by, barking when dinner is fractionally late, barking, barking and more barking!
I realized early on that I needed professional help. Nothing I tried seemed to help and yelling at her – haven’t we all done that – just made things worse. The kind of barking that bothered me the most was the excitement barking whenever we arrived somewhere. Imagine a car pulling up at a parking lot, with the sound of a dog barking making the vehicle almost vibrate with noise. Onlookers always looked alarmed when we arrived, and if they had children and dogs with them, quickly made their escape. Of course, once Daphne exited the car, all there was to see was a cute, fluffy spaniel happily trotting along on her walk.
Lisbeth Plant from Cowichan Canine once remarked, sotto voce, as we were leaving after a play group, “you should see a trainer about that!” as the car began to vibrate with Daphne’s barking.
So, the plan, outlined by Lisbeth, was deceptively simple. I would drive towards our favourite park and – the minute Daphne started barking – I would turn the car around and drive away. I would continue to drive away until Daphne stopped barking and then turn back in the direction of the park. Every time she started to bark on our approach to the park, I would turn around and drive away.
Timing was important: I needed to turn the vehicle around quickly as soon as she started to bark. The minute she became quiet, I needed to turn the car around again and return to the park. Fortunately, the neighbourhood was quiet, and I drive an electric car, as it took EIGHT tries the first time! EIGHT attempts before we finally reached the park in silence and started our walk. Magically, Daphne did connect the fact that we were moving away from the thing she wanted the most – her walk – each time she barked. I found it extraordinary that she managed to make the connection so relatively quickly.
Of course, the next day it took 9 tries, the following day 5 tries, the following 3. Consistency – as with so much of dog training, was critical. If I gave in just once, it would take me a few days to get back to no barking.
I’m not indecisive, just training my dog.
Of course, it must have been very puzzling to onlookers: someone drives up with their dog, enters the parking lot and then suddenly leaves, only to do the same thing again and again.
Sometimes it must have looked as though I was “casing a neighbourhood” as I would drive up and down streets several times, waiting for Daphne to became quiet. Again, we got some glares from neighbours and even one comment as we drove by.
What worked, and what didn’t?
Consistency and regular practice worked. Daphne goes out twice a day for walks, and so we practiced twice a day. Results happened quite quickly, although if I wasn’t consistent, we would be back to driving around again for a few days.
One problem was when Daphne was in the car when I drove my husband to his appointments. We were invariably running late and so sometimes I had to choose between getting him to his appointment on time, and taking the time to make sure Daphne didn’t bark.
Today, we typically drive up in silence, although just occasionally, the excitement gets too much, and Daphne starts barking. I don’t say a word, just turn the car around and drive away. Instantly, Daphne will give a little half whine and then keep silent, as if she knows she has caused this delay.
Most importantly, this method has not involved any yelling, making a noise or spraying her with water, or any other aversive method. Just patience and consistency and a little time.
A Cowichan Canine instructor’s take
Lisbeth Plant, Cowichan Canine’s Behaviour Consultant, leads a Barking and Jumping Up class in which you can learn to manage various types of barking – including demand barking, attention-seeking barking, and barking when the doorbell rings.
‘It’s important to understand why your dog is barking. Dogs bark as communication. They do not bark “to be a nuisance,” or to be “stubborn” or to be “dominant.” In this class you will learn to understand why your barks and develop the skills and knowledge to redirect your dog towards more desirable behaviours. Dogs can also bark in fear – which can look like aggression – when meeting other dogs or people, and if that’s the case, then you really need to see a professional, such as a behaviour consultant, to work on solving the problem.’
- by Anonymous Student
Just want to thank you Lisbeth and also Bev and Karen for the excellent training that Lily and I have enjoyed so much. I know Lily has enough for a pass now but we really are aiming for distinction. We are working hard at home as well to see if we can get this. Lily is so improved now. My husband says that in the mornings when he is playing ball off leash with her that she no longer runs at other dogs, she just ignores them now. I noticed when I took her to another trainer in the summer she was always panting and anxious. At Cowichan Canine she is just so happy and cannot wait to get in the door. It is her favourite place so obviously what you are doing is right and the place has great vibes for dogs. She has not reacted to the dogs in the classes either but is always wagging her tail. I am very grateful for this. We will be back in December and want to go onto greater things in advanced and we are both looking forward to it. Going to bring my other dog Cole as well.
Susan
Maple Bay, BC
To Everyone at Cowichan Canine: Cyrus & I have just finished the Foundation program and passed with Honours - phew! Along the way we were fortunate to sample several of the other courses that you offer, including private lessons for my other dog, Ricco. It was a real treat to be able to do that . I learned soooo much about my dogs; from how they react to each other, how to understand their body language, to be more patient and even what treats to provide for success. I was very impressed from the start with your on-line registration, the class sizes, the ability to work at our own pace, and even the individual water bowls. And on top of all that, each instructor offers a unique view of training so that you can get different perspectives. And of course, Andrea keeps the ship running smoothly. The time the three of us have spent with you has definitely been a worthwhile Thank you from Sherie, Ricco & Cyrus.
Sherie Robb
Maple Bay

